Love is in the air. The question is when was the last time you said “I LOVE YOU” to yourself.? When was the last time you took yourself on a date, bought yourself a beautiful loving gift or even flowers? I know that got you thinking.

So many men and women all over the world are commencing their searches for the perfect Valentine’s Day restaurants, gifts and flowers. This year, Valentine’s day falls on a Friday. If you don’t have a date yet, it’s time to find one. And if you don’t want a date then take yourself out and practise some self-love.
Here is some advice of where to find yourself a date this Valentine’s.

*1. Wear the colour of love – Red. *

This is one of those strange things that science supports. Red attracts attention to you and tends to give confidence somehow to a prospective date. That’s what the study Red and Romantic Behaviour in Men Viewing Women found. I’ll vouch for it. Red is attractive. You could even take it a step further. Wear a pretty red dress and put your fabulous hair up. Maybe your dream date will realize you’re attempting to attract a date!

*2. Go out during happy hour. *

Call your friends and get out there on a weeknight, after work. It’s a great time to meet people who might also be there looking for a date. You never know your luck in a big city.

3. Join a dating site, if you haven’t already.

There are so many sites to choose from. Look around and find a reputable one that fits your needs. Upload a beautiful photo of yourself in a red dress. Hey, it’s worth a shot. Then send some messages. Make sure you read about the dating sites best practices for online dating.

* 4. Check out your local gym, if you have access to one.*

No, not so you can get in shape before Valentine’s day. Do this just to meet guys. How many times have you had to ask someone if they are done using a treadmill or a bench? Use that as an opportunity to start a conversation. Or, pretend you don’t know what you’re doing and ask for help. The best times to meet “good quality” men, according to Mirror, are before and after business hours.

5. Lastly, this is for you if you like your own company.

Make a reservation in your favourite restaurant, dress up in a pretty red dress and have fun with you. It’s cool being single.
Now that you’ve been offered some tips for Valentine’s day, go forth and have some fun.